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The Truth About Family Law Cases: No Attorney Can Predict Outcomes

Why ethical attorneys focus on guidance and process, not guarantees. Sept. 12, 2025

At the David Meyer Legal Team, we understand that reaching out to a family law attorney often comes during an emotionally difficult time. Whether you're considering divorce, seeking custody of your children, or negotiating support arrangements, one of the first questions people understandably ask is:

"What’s going to happen in my case?"
While this question is completely natural, it’s important to know why no ethical attorney can answer it definitively—especially during an initial phone consultation.

Every Family Is Unique—and So Is Every Case
No two families are alike, and neither are the legal matters involving them. Missouri family courts base their decisions on a wide range of factors: parenting history, financial circumstances, living arrangements, the best interests of the children, and much more. A lawyer cannot assess all of these factors from a brief phone call—nor can they anticipate what evidence the other side may present.


Until your case is thoroughly reviewed—including all relevant documents, court filings, and interviews—it would be irresponsible and misleading for any attorney to offer guarantees.

Ethical Standards Prohibit Promising Results
Attorneys are governed by professional rules of conduct. These ethical rules specifically prohibit making promises about case outcomes. This protects clients from being misled and ensures that attorneys focus on providing honest, fact-based counsel—not false hope.
Family law decisions often come down to judicial discretion. Even experienced attorneys cannot predict how a particular judge will rule in a contested custody dispute or how child support may be calculated until all the variables are clear.

Initial Consultations Are for Listening and Understanding
The first step in any family law matter is understanding the unique dynamics of your situation. That’s the purpose of your initial call or meeting. It’s a time for you to share your story, explain your concerns, and ask about the general legal process—not to receive firm answers before all the facts are known.


A responsible attorney will ask thoughtful questions, explain your options under Missouri law, and set realistic expectations for how the case may develop over time.

What You Can Expect from the David Meyer Legal Team

We don’t offer quick fixes—but we do offer trusted legal guidance rooted in professionalism and care. When you choose our firm, you can count on:

  • A thorough review of your family’s unique legal and personal dynamics

  • Clear, honest advice based on facts and experience—not speculation

  • Detailed explanations of the legal process in areas like custody, support, and property division

  • Compassionate, strategic advocacy throughout your case